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Something about the gap just doesn't compute in my brain, something is just "off" about it.

I think it'd bother me less if it was say a 22 year old and a 32 year old.

Most large age gap couples I know are no more prone to such power issues than anyone else - it seems everyone only thinks of the "innocent 18 year old girl and the drug-using 30 year old man who served time for rape".

Oh, and those belonging to some conservative religions as that power play can be part and parcel of the belief system.

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What about if your 10-year-old looks at you and says, "I'm ready to date, Dad"? There is so much a 12-year-old can teach a 10-year-old -- advanced coloring, advanced texting, and so many other important life skills. You're 20 years old and, under this rule, you can date a 17-year-old. There you are in college, and you get to go back to high school again to find a girlfriend.

and the male in question basically looks the same age as the female, considering the young aspie genes in said male... This is a completely hypothetical question and is not related in any way to my personal life but it is just something I've been thinking about wildly of how society would see this situation.

I don't have an issue with it, I could understand the concern a father might have in that scenario thinking the older man might be taking advantage of someone young and naive but you can't control your kids life when they're an adult. and the male in question basically looks the same age as the female, considering the young aspie genes in said male... This is a completely hypothetical question and is not related in any way to my personal life but it is just something I've been thinking about wildly of how society would see this situation.

She has been engaged, is a manager at a store, has her own house and car with no roommates.

The sex with her is amazing, she doesnt feel any different than someone my age and we bond so well together when we do it.

And from those, people seem to enjoy projecting it onto every large-age-difference couple. I kind of weirds me out a little, and my parents even had the 10 year gap, my father was 27/28 and my mother was 17/18 when they first met, I was born when my mother was 23.

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