“The balance is off,” I said, swirling a French fry in ketchup. Lunch lasted for three hours and turned into coffee at a café a few blocks away, and then a lingering walk through the Manhattan streets as the sun warmed us on that bright fall day.“Tell me something personal about you.” “I’m sober,” he said. After I left David I was in a daze, dizzy from our effortless afternoon together. Some of you, if not most, have hearts and know how to treat a lady I think. I can rarely get a guy to buy me a second beer, yet some chicks get rocks on the second date. That you figured that out for yourself after years of dating or whatever. But then there are the girls who are smart enough to not let their bats**t flag fly until the second that marriage license is signed. Look at their Instagram -- any pictures with friends? If a chick has a laundry list of crazy that's laid out on websites like Baller Alert, Deadspin or The Dirty, maybe think twice about whether or not she's a good girl with good intentions. Don't Date The Girl Who Wants To Get Married On The Second Date Marriage is one of those elusive things to me. And sometimes, if not most times, I assume a guy puts a ring on a chick because he gets it. Because she's not the gold digger, cleat chaser, bad person who is using you for sperm so she can divorce you, marry the pool boy and get alimony and child support so she never has to work.“And I am willing to pay you half a million dollars a year.” Kumar replied that Mc Kinsey forbade outside consulting, but Rajaratnam persisted, appealing to Kumar’s pride: “You work very, very hard, you travel a lot, you are underpaid.People have made fortunes while you were away in India, and you deserve more.” He noted that Kumar, who provided strategic advice to Silicon Valley technology companies—one of Rajaratnam’s investing specialties—possessed knowledge that was worth a lot of money. But for the life of me, some of you guys pick the worst vaginas ever to lock it up with, and I can't understand why. These women are like their own personal cottage industry. I was always the girl the boys brought out because I just could hang. That your friends like, that your friends can talk to, respect and laugh with. But she is marrying HER best friend as well (not me, tragically ha). They are the couple who you know didn't just meet at a bar or go on a date. And they've cared for one another long before there was nakedness and intimacy. The one who was there before the drunk sex or the "she's so hot" or the awkward "should I text her? You have to know that the girl you are gonna be with, maybe even marry, was there before she really had a reason to BE there (relationship wise).
Those guys who think treating people with respect or some semblance of humanity makes them look weak. In sociosexual behavior also, bisexual women reported being more unrestricted, followed by homo- and then heterosexual women.Social power has been popularly associated with sexual infidelity among men; experimental psychologists have linked power with sexual infidelity among women also. As in, the guys who do the right thing, treat people -- and specifically women -- well, and hold the door for ladies and stuff, they always get screwed over. The guys who don't call, don't text, don't even check to make sure you got home okay when they were too busy to make sure you got in a cab that night. And then, hopefully, if karma gets around to it, they get arrested at some point for fraud or hiring hookers or exposing themselves on the 6 train. Which is totes possible because hey, you're a senior accountant at Citi. And when Kate Upton doesn't call, instead they marry horrible women who grow up to be sedated housewives who are constantly trying to pitch their inability to work a stove as a reality show to E! The guys who hook up with one girl and then her best friend the next night while girl number one is buying them both a drink because, damn, sluts! " The girls who do go for the guys that care and make efforts, are just the girls a guy want to marry. Guys keep them on the back burner and keep it casual in case, you know, Kate Upton decides to hang that night. I pay for my dinners unless a guy fights me to a point of embarrassment in front of the waitress. And I certainly would never take my boyfriend's credit card and go to town on it. You'd be surprised to know that the best relationships are usually the ones that are built on some kid of firm foundation of messed up "know you better than anyone" friendship.Their friendship, intermittent over the years, was based on self-interest rather than on intimacy.